How to prevent baby tantrums
Often, you can prevent a baby from losing control of his emotions if you prevent the situations that lead up to this. Here are some things to keep in mind:
- When baby is tired, put him down for a nap or to sleep.
- Feed your baby frequently. Babies have small tummies and need regular nourishment.
- Give your baby toys that are geared to his age and ability level.
- Warn your baby before changing activities (“One more swing, then we’re going home.”)
- Be patient when putting your baby in an unfamiliar environment or when introducing him to new people. Don’t force him to be held by someone he doesn’t know well.
- Help your baby learn new skills with lots of practice (such as climbing stairs or working puzzles).
- Keep your expectations realistic; don’t expect more than your baby is capable of.
- Don’t plan a day filled with activity and no nap break.
- As much as possible, keep a regular and predictable sleep and eat schedule.
- When your baby is overly emotional, keep yourself as calm as possible.
- Use a soothing tone of voice and gentle touch to help your baby calm down. He can’t do it on his own, he needs your help.
Elizabeth Pantley is a mother of four, grandmother, and author of the bestselling book, The No-Cry Sleep Solution, plus 8 other books in the No-Cry Solution Series, which helps mums and dads through all key stages of parenting. Visit her on her website, blog, Instagram or Pinterest.
