The Best Insights for Parents
New, busy and seasoned parents alike can learn a lot from watching their child develop a relationship with a pet. These are the most significant takeaways, which can make you more supportive and understanding of them:
- Strive for total acceptance: While parenting an autistic child causes your life to look different, you can overcome any challenges by modelling the unconditional acceptance the pet has for your child.
- Be inspired for activities: Watch how your child interacts with the pet and how they pass the time. You can discover what games they play and what stimulates them, incorporating similar activities that appeal to their senses and behaviours.
- See diversity in social connections: Notice the environments when your child feels most socially confident with their animal, and try to find safer spaces to support friendships.
- Notice sensory triggers and outlets: Watch how your child interacts with the pet and discover what upsets and excites them. Write down if certain textures and sounds cause your kid to feel an intense emotion. Then, you can emulate the happy and calming feelings in other parts of their lives.
- Foster competence: Trusting your child to care for the pet does more than establish routines. It makes them feel like you believe in their abilities. While it can feel second nature to support your child every step of the way, walking back and letting them take charge is one of the best ways to encourage healthy development.
Children’s Best Friend
A pet can change how your child sees the world and alter how you see your child. Those with autism and other sensitivities can experience an unprecedented level of support and emotional growth by caring for an animal. While parents may feel it is their responsibility to teach children these lessons, it is crucial to empower them through relationships so they seek it on their own. If your family can healthily incorporate a pet into the household, it could be one of the best decisions you make.
Jane Marsh is the founder and editor-in-chief of Environment.co where she shares practical tips on how to live a greener life.
