Mothers did not have the same effect on their daughters’ loneliness either, with researchers suggesting it could be because mothers generally are very close with their children at all times, so there was not such a difference to measure. They also mention that the relationship between fathers and their daughters is quite unique.
“In our society, mothers tend to be responsible for everyday care and stability for their children,” Feng said. “Fathers have more freedom to interact with their children in different ways, to challenge them and have a wider range of emotional contact. That may be one reason why fathers had more impact on their daughters.”
So, dads – go forth and foster those close bonds with your children, particularly your daughters.
“Pay attention to their feelings, especially when they are sad or unhappy, and help them cope,” Feng said. “Our results suggest it can really help daughters feel less lonely over time.”
We imagine that attachment parenting practices that many of you include in your lives will be doing so much good for your children, both your sons and daughters. They will be growing up with close family ties to both parents that begins at birth.
Hannah Schenker is a freelance writer, editor and regular contributor to The Natural Parent Magazine. She lives with a touch of magic in Golden Bay, New Zealand.
