The drive: What challenges have you overcome?
Being a solopreneur is both exciting and daunting. One of the challenges that I faced was how to get myself out there into the community where I do not know anyone. This, coupled with the feeling of imposter syndrome which knocked on my door unannounced (and sometimes still does!) pushed me back several times. It felt like I was swimming into unchartered waters, and I had no idea of how strong the current would be.
What helped me to overcome uncertainty and self-doubt is to put on a simple float that I could manage. I started by offering coffee meet-ups and focused on relationship building instead of my offers. Gradually, my connections grow bigger and deeper. The reciprocal energy helps me to feel seen and heard. They offer perspectives that can shine a light on my blind spots and cheer loudly whenever I share milestones, big and small. That’s the beautiful thing about surrounding ourselves with others whom we can relate with. We feel safe enough to take on challenges.
For better or worse: What are the pros and cons of running your own business?
I was asked this question by some of my friends back in Singapore who have expressed a range of emotions when they learnt about my solopreneur. All of them are actually very excited for me. I wouldn’t say that running my own business is better than being an employee. It has its own perks and downsides, which make this journey one that is uniquely experienced by everyone.
For me, I love being able to call the shots at what, how and when I want to do things. The privilege of being completely autonomous is liberating as I learn to be selective in doing things that bring me purpose in this stage of life. Solopreneur really does suit me because I am able to be there for my family whilst having my own adventure in an even more transparent manner.
With that comes the challenge where it also means that I am fully accountable for the success and failure of my business. Keeping it afloat and thriving requires me to practise extra care and caution when I make any business and clinical decisions, big or small. It is a big responsibility that rests on my shoulders.
Hopes and dreams: What next?
Right now, I continue to improve myself through further training that can value-add my current knowledge and skillsets in supporting migrant mums-to-be. One of these trainings that I am doing is a practitioner certification course with Matrescence NZ, which I am super excited about. This course is hosted locally here, which is amazing for first-hand experience that is culturally nuanced and attentive to NZ.
Another goal that I have over the next 12 to 18 months is to design and launch a group programme (in-person and/or online) for interested migrant mums-to-be to participate in. I always believe that we need a village to raise our children and ourselves and so, this goal will help me to realise my vision. Achieving this goal enables me to reach a greater audience out there, scaling impacts by several folds beyond the 1:1 therapy chair.
Let’s join hands to support mamas’ mental health!
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