4. Shift the emphasis from getting more possessions to creating warm family connections
Holiday traditions can be about connection, whether you’re baking or decorating. Create a tradition of meaningful gift giving by buying fewer “things” and instead giving experiences. Research shows that experiences make us happier than things. Kids will treasure time with you more than they will toys, no matter how much they think they want those toys.
5. Let children hear the sounds of silence
Many of us use background TV and radio as a way to avoid being alone with ourselves. Children, even more than the rest of us, need quiet time to simply be present with themselves. Music is a wonderful part of setting the holiday mood in your home, and singing is essential to celebration. But if media voices are intruding on the peacefulness of your home, it increases everyone’s tension level. Why not take the opportunity over the holidays to turn off the screens and lift the mood with inspiring music — Or simply hear the power in silence?
Love is always in the room with you, no matter what day it is, or what your faith may be. What better time to help your child listen for it?
Originally published here.
Dr. Laura Markham is the founder of PeacefulParentHappyKids.com and author of Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids, Peaceful Parent, Happy Siblings and her latest book, the Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids Workbook.
